Willow Orchard Friends
Growing in the Fruit of the Spirit
Nico Raccoon
Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control
About Nico
Nico Raccoon is curious, energetic, and always interested in discovering something new. He loves exploring Willow Orchard, solving little problems, and finding clever ways to help his friends.
Nico is learning that self-control means being in charge of our choices instead of letting strong feelings or quick impulses decide for us. Sometimes the strongest choice is to stop, think, and choose what is kind and wise.
Growing in Self-Control
Self-control is one of the beautiful qualities named in Galatians 5:22–23. It grows when we learn to pause before we act, manage our words and actions, and make good choices even when something feels difficult or tempting.
Sometimes self-control looks like waiting our turn, stopping before saying something unkind, walking away when we are frustrated, or choosing what is right even when we would rather do something else.
Nico is discovering that a thoughtful pause can help him make choices he feels good about later.
Talk
When is it hardest for you to stop and think
before you act?
Think
What could help you make a wise choice when you feel angry, excited, or impatient?
Grow
Practice a three-step pause today: Stop. Think. Choose. Then choose the kindest and wisest response you can.
Pray
Dear God, help me slow down and make wise choices. Give me self-control in my words and actions so I can show kindness to others. Amen.
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